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December 23, 2016

Love: Zephaniah 3:17-18

“For the Lord your God is living among you. He is a mighty savior. He will take delight in you with gladness. With his love, he will calm all your fears. He will rejoice over you with joyful songs. I will gather you who mourn for the appointed festivals; you will be disgraced no more.” – Zephaniah 3:17-18 

Cause You came near

From the everlasting

To the world we live

The Father’s only Son

This is one of the songs I really love to sing out. It’s a story in itself. The Father’s only Son, “…who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage”, came near.

Why?

Because “all of us like sheep have gone astray; we have turned –everyone- to his own way” (Isaiah 53:6). No one looked for God. Rather, it was God who reached out and looked for us.

“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” (John 3:16). This great and awesome God, the Creator of the universe, the One who hangs the earth upon nothing (Job 26:7), chose to send His beloved Son to us out of His great love for us.

I remember a story I once read. There was a man who visited a church and before the pastor gave his sermon for the evening, he invited the man to have a few moments to greet the church and share whatever he felt suitable for the service. The pastor introduced the guest minister as one of his childhood dearest friends. The elderly man stood up, stepped up to the pulpit and began to speak. He told about the story of a father, a son and a friend of the father’s son who went sailing off the Pacific Coast when a furious storm loomed and blocked their way to get back to the shore. The father was an experienced sailor, however, the waves were so high and the father could not keep the boat upright. The boat capsized and the three were swept to the ocean. Grabbing the rescue line, the father had to make the most piercing decision in his life: to which boy he would throw the other end of the life line. The father knew that his son was a Christian and that he would step into eternity with Jesus but the son’s friend was not. As the father yelled out, “I love you, son!”, he threw out the life line to the son’s friend. By the time the son’s friend had reached the capsized boat, the son had disappeared beneath the angry waves. The elderly man likened this story to the great love of God, choosing to sacrifice his son to save his son’s friend. When the service was finished, two teenagers approched the old man. One of the boys politely commented that it was a nice story but it was unrealistic for a father to give up his only son’s life in hopes that the son’s friend would come to know the Lord. The old man understood the young man’s point and replied, “You’ve got a point there. But I want you to know that I understand more than most the pain God must have felt to give up His only Son. You see, I’m that father who lost his son to ocean that day, and my son’s friend that I chose to save is your pastor.”

This is God’s love.

It is indescribable. It’s too deep it cannot be fathomed. This is the love that chose to come and save us. In Zephaniah 3:17, it says, “The Lord your God is with you, the Mighty Warrior who saves. He will take great delight in you, in his love he will no longer rebuke you but will rejoice over you with singing.”

He loves us, He delights to save us and in His love He will rejoice over us with singing.

This love produces unspeakable joy and peace that passes all understanding. This love enables us to love as well. “We love because He first loved us.” (1 John 4:19).

May this season bring us closer to the Lover of our soul, the One who loved us and came to save us.

By: Joy Lojo · Filed Under: Advent · Tagged: advent, Christmas, devotional, love

December 21, 2016

Love: John 13:34-35

“So now I am giving you a new commandment: Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other. Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples.” – John 13:34-35

Have you ever had to work, support, or be around someone that you thought was nearly unlovable? Or, better yet, have you yourself ever felt unlovable. Girl, if you’re a college student, or are anything like me, then you probably find yourself in this situation often.

It happens, and I mean that in the most humble way I can.

Life happens, and so do situations like these.

Almost every semester I’m faced with someone with in my classes that I just cant work with (and with my luck, I usually end up working with them anyways). They are usually those Type B students that procrastinate, slack off, and end up sending every fiber of my brain over the edge. But, every time I find myself sitting in my group project, screaming internally, I can hear God whispering the same thing: love them.

Dang. I mean, God can seriously throw a gut punch every once in awhile, ya know? Love someone who is annoying, painful to work with, and completely different from me?! Yeah, that is exactly what He is saying.

To make things even worse, God doesn’t just tell us to love certain people, but rather He calls us, as Christians, to love everyone!

John 13: 34 tells us to: A new command I give you: love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.

Simple enough.

But it’s in verse 35 that God convicts us as Christians to fulfill His command: By this everyone will know you are my disciples, if you love one another.

Everyone will know we are His disciples.

No matter where we go, or what we do, as Christians we represent God and His Kingdom. It doesn’t matter if there is a crowd, or one person; a classroom, or a single group, by loving others, even the unlovable ones, we are showing everyone what Christ’s love looks like. If that isn’t a life calling, then I don’t know what is!

I’m not telling you that you won’t be aggravated. No, in fact, it will be hard.

These situations will be hard and the people in your life will sometimes be beyond unlovable. Sometimes you will even seem like the unlovable one, and in those times we can still cling to this verse. We can still love those that persecuted, isolate, and hurt us.

He called you to His will and plan for your life.

So, go out into this world. Love the unlovable. Live out your calling on your life and act out as His disciples. In a world that is filled with so much hate; in a world where hate is the new bedrock of society, be His truth, be His light, be His Loving Disciple.

 

By: Allison Rector · Filed Under: Advent · Tagged: advent, Christmas, devotional, love

December 19, 2016

Love: Luke 1:39-45, 1 Peter 1:22-23

“A few days later Mary hurried to the hill country of Judea, to the town where Zechariah lived. She entered the house and greeted Elizabeth. At the sound of Mary’s greeting, Elizabeth’s child leaped within her, and Elizabeth was filled with the Holy Spirit. Elizabeth gave a glad cry and exclaimed to Mary, “God has blessed you above all women, and your child is blessed. Why am I so honored, that the mother of my Lord should visit me? When I heard your greeting, the baby in my womb jumped for joy. You are blessed because you believed that the Lord would do what he said.” – Luke 1:39-45

“You were cleansed from your sins when you obeyed the truth, so now you must show sincere love to each other as brothers and sisters. Love each other deeply with all your heart. For you have been born again, but not to a life that will quickly end. Your new life will last forever because it comes from the eternal, living word of God.” – 1 Peter 1:22-23

Love is presented mainly as a emotion when the truth is that love is a verb.

Love is an action expressed by those that are giving love to those who are receiving love. Today love can masquerade as many broken and untrue things but the reality is this, God is love. The deepest and most profound sense of the word. This love has the power to completely one hundred precent ravish us in the most beautiful way.

God showed us His love in action by giving us His one and only Son (John 3:16). We may have heard these words before but let us take a minute to really let those words be expanded to us. God gave us Jesus to that we could be in relationship once more with Him. God is love in its purest, truest form.

When God sent His son to us, He choose a willing vessel to cary out His action of love.

Mary wasn’t this super extraordinary woman. She, like many before her, had her heart set on the God and had “found favor with God.” Luke 1:30. Let us be like Mary that we may also find favor with God.

It was in this moment that God sent the angel Gabriel to tell Mary that she was chosen and favored to be a vessel for God. Mary was to bring the Son of God into this world. She then had the opportunity to show her love in action. Even though she was chosen and favored by God, Mary could have said “no”. Mary, however, choose to express her love by receiving that God had for her—this was her love toward God in action. Mary was completely transformed when she received this love from God. From the inside to the outside, Mary experienced the fullness of God by receiving His love.

Just as it was true for Mary, this is true for us.

God still desires to give us His love. It’s still His gift to us and when we receive this gift we can love God and love one another (Matthew 22:36-40). Part of the Father’s heart for us is that we would love one another.

1 Peter 1:22 tells us that we are to “love one another earnestly from a pure heart.” Since we know who love is, we are to show who love is and show our love in actions toward those in our lives. Take some time to ask the Lord if there are areas in your life where you aren’t showing sincere love toward someone else.

As we prepare to enter the final week of Advent let us rejoice in what the Lord has done in this time. Let us continue to be changed by the wonderful and powerful love of Christ. This love that covers a multitude of sin (1 Peter 4:8), love that has paid for it all on the cross (John 19:10), love that offers eternal life (John 3:17), love that sets us free (Galatians 5:1).

God’s love will never run out. God’s love will never lose power.

“Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today and tomorrow.” Hebrews 3:18

By: Anabel Mendiola · Filed Under: Advent · Tagged: advent, Christmas, devotional, love

December 18, 2016

Hymn: Love Divine, All Loves Excelling

We are entering into the last week of advent. The theme this week is love. We pray that this week will bring you to a closer place with the Lord.

Love Divine, All Loves Excelling
words by: Charles Wesley

Love divine, all loves excelling,
Joy of heaven to earth come down,
Fix in us thy humble dwelling,
All thy faithful mercies crown;
Jesu, thou art all compassion,
Pure unbounded love thou art,
Visit us with thy salvation,
Enter every trembling heart.

Breathe, O breathe thy loving Spirit
Into every troubled breast,
Let us all in thee inherit,
Let us find that second rest:
Take away our power of sinning,
Alpha and Omega be,
End of faith as its beginning,
Set our hearts at liberty.

Come, Almighty to deliver,
Let us all thy life receive,
Suddenly return, and never,
Never more thy temples leave.
Thee we would be always blessing,
Serve thee as thy hosts above,
Pray, and praise thee without ceasing,
Glory in thy perfect love.

Finish then thy new creation,
Pure and sinless let us be,
Let us see thy great salvation,
Perfectly restor’d in thee;
Chang’d from glory into glory,
Till in heaven we take our place,
Till we cast our crowns before thee,
Lost in wonder, love, and praise!

By: Sarah Sandoval · Filed Under: Advent · Tagged: advent, Christmas, devotional, hymn, love

November 10, 2016

How Getting Engaged Didn’t Solve my Problems & Why This isn’t the End of my Love Story

A few months ago, I got engaged.

Some of you might have seen it on Instagram. Some of you might have seen my cheesy caption on Facebook. You might have squealed in excitement, you might have sent me a text or given me a giant hug. Some of you, might have sighed, might have been slightly disappointed, thinking about another random girl on your Instagram explore page getting engaged and wondering if it would ever be you. Some of you might have seen a guy getting on his knee and began to question your own worth, your own beauty, your own value.

Today, I am here to tell you something different.

You see, it would be easy, so incredibly easy, for me to sit here and tell you why I love this phase of my life. I could babble on about how he proposed, exactly what he said when he got down on one knee, but I have chosen not to do that. I am here to tell you something different. Something so much more wildly important than my own proposal story. Something I don’t think people hear enough. Something us engaged girls aren’t telling the world.

Getting engaged didn’t change me.

Getting engaged has not made me perfect.

I know what you’re thinking, because I have thought it too. I have watched friends and sisters get engaged, plan weddings, try on wonderful dresses, and I have sat there believing that they have it all together. They have finally made it.

I wish I could tell you that I have finally made it. That after the proposal have been sweet bliss. That all of the sudden, my hidden insecurities and comparisons have dissipated. But they haven’t. I make phone calls and look at wedding venues and still long to be perfect. I still look at other girls and wonder if I could just me more like them, while the world and you, probably believe I must feel so entirely loved. I still walk in anxiety even though I am planning a wedding. I still live in fear even though I have found “the one.”

This ring hasn’t changed me. Because a man getting down on one knee hasn’t fixed me.

You, my dear friends, are not seeing the whole story. You don’t have the complete picture. A long time ago, God started writing my love story and it didn’t end or begin with Jake saying I love you. So that is what I am here to tell you. Not the dreams of my wedding, not the marriage I hope to have. I am here to tell you that God started a work in me and you a long time ago, and one proposal isn’t the whole story.

I was sixteen when I thought I found the one. I fell for the bliss of being wanted and  was intoxicated with the infatuation of being “loved.” That love I believed in as a sixteen year old girl was not the action type of love, not the sacrifice type of love, but the love that contained a lot of empty promises and shattered hearts. God started writing my love story when that boy told me he loved me, and when three years later, he told me that love no longer existed. I believed in a love that didn’t persist, and God picked me up, found me in my mess, and told me he was going to redefine my definition of love.

I spent a lot of time healing, which is the nice way of saying I spent a lot of time crying and calling my best friends on the phone. I spent a lot of time questioning if I had any worth at all, believing the undeniable lie that when a boy tells you he doesn’t love you, you are entirely unloveable. I had no idea what love was and no clue what God was doing. But you see, this is the story. This is what I want to tell you. This is not what you see when you look at my engagement post on Instagram. You don’t see the hurt. You don’t see the healing. You don’t see the story Jesus began writing a long time ago. But it’s important. Don’t miss it.

A year later, is when I met Jake. A good part of me had sworn of love and I was confident in living the single life until Jesus called me home. I never wanted to date again, because dating left me messy and broken and confused. But Jake was kind and gentle, and spoke of The Lord with boldness that inspired me. He heard of my past and told me I was worth it. Jesus was writing my love story, going fierce with a pen and paper I couldn’t yet see.

Now, I am engaged to that same boy who made me laugh while drinking black coffee, and though I am giddy with excitement, I am still here. I am still messy. I am still struggling. I still cried in the car last night because I am just so overwhelmed. Jesus is still writing, still working on my definition of love, still chasing after the heart that I tried to give away when I was 16 to a boy who didn’t want it. When you look at me, at my ring, at my wedding, I don’t want you to see a girl you believe has finally made it. I want you to see the whole story. The beautiful script Jesus started writing a long time ago. The story that broke me and healed me and made me new. The story that is still being written.

This post is for you, the single girl who believes no boy will love her.

The girl who just ended the relationship she thought would last a lifetime. The girl who sighed, or maybe even cried, when she say another proposal on Instagram. This post is for the girl waiting on her boyfriend to propose, believing that all of life’s problems will be solved when she finally has a ring. I am no more loved, no more cherished, no more adorned than you are, right here, in this moment. This ring on my finger does not make me more lovely, more worthy, more valuable. This ring symbolizes the never ending love story God is writing. And believe me. He is writing yours too.

You, yes you.

You are more loved than you will ever know.

By: Julia Halpin · Filed Under: Life · Tagged: engagement, love, marriage

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